附註:Includes bibliographical references and subject index.
Historical family systems review and current state of the art -- Relationship dissatisfaction : the stock market of love -- Power imbalances : the see-saw of love in relationships -- The death of the dream, the fantasy unfulfilled, the wish un-granted, and the opening of the door to infidelity -- Detonation of the bomb : infidelity discovered, the partner's perspective and the decision to pick up the pieces or pack it in -- Exploring the wishes, dreams, and fantasies unfulfilled and/or developing new ones to pursue together -- Re-balancing the see-saw : sharing power and working together -- Increasing satisfaction and learning to ride the ups and downs of relationships -- Affair proof! : how to help couples make sure that this isn't happening or won't ever happen again.